Friday, June 24, 2005

my answers part 1

Here us part 1 in my answers back to you. I will finish them later today when I get home from work.....if you have anymore questions please ask don't be shy.....I won't bite unless you ake me to:)

Mikey asked~what was the funniest/most outrageous lie you ever told to get out of a date? or out of work?

I dated this guy who owned a bunch of hot dog stands around the city and he would come over to my uninvited all the time. I guess I just needed my space so I had my brothers friend stop by and of course the hot dog guy was there and he did not stick around to find out why he was there he just said "oh I guess I will leave." He never came around again. I guess it worked out for the best. He was a grandfather (he was 33) and I was 20 at the time. I could not get it out of my mind that I was dating a grandfather even though he was a young grandfather.

J&J's mom asked~Can you really sport those high heels for a significant amount of time?

Yes I can! If you have been reading me for awhile I am sure you remember that I have said that I use to strip a few years ago. Walking in heels is like walking is sneakers. I guess it is just one of those things that takes a little bit of practice and then it is like riding a never forget. Wearing heels is great for your butt and legs (it tightens everything up). I don't wear heels as much as I would like to but that is because of the job that I have now. Oh well, I still enjoy wearing them when ever I go out.

Charlie MC asked~have you ever blogged naked?

I have! Have you? The less amount of clothes I have on the better I feel. I hate to feel like my clothes are weighing me down:) does that make sense?

Marie asked~What is the craziest stunt you ever pulled and lived to tell about? :)

When I was 16 I was living with mom and we also had my ex-boyfriend at the time living with us because his mom and dad wanted nothing to do with him. He lived in the basement of our townhouse and went to school and worked in a movie theater next to where I worked at. He was my ex-boyfriend at the time he was living with us but we were still good friends.

My mom let him drive her van to work and then he would pick her up after she got off of work. Joey (that was his name) would go into work before me and I would have the keys (I had no license at the even a permit) and I would drive all over town until it was time for me to go to work. I remember I was driving Joey home one night and I was pulling over before we got home so he could be in the drivers seat and I hit a mailbox with the mirror on the car. We had to find touch up paint to fix it and mom never found out I was driving her van.

She wondered how I could drive so good....I had plenty of practice in her van:)

True Jersey Girl asked~Do you think there is any way that you will ever forgive James (and your sister too) for the things they have done to you? (I wouldn't blame you if you said no!)

I can forgive them for being together because forgive to me mean nothing more than ~ I agree to speak to you if I have to but I still do not like you. I can never forget about all the pain they have both caused me in the past and still continue to do. I tend to hold my anger in and not let it out like I should do. There is a lot of history there and Jessica knows all the things that have happened between me and James....all the fighting, cheating, drugs, lies, court battles, money issues.....and she still will choose James over me. I guess you could say that I could not forgive them...I think they are both pathetic. I choose to stay away and watch the relationship crumble. I put the blame on my family for things before I blame James because our whole relationship was built on a lie to begin with. I am over that hurt now my anger is more on how he is about his responsibility with Anna. Jessica is blood she should be a true sister but she is just trashy! James and Jessica deserve each other. I hope they stay as happy as they are now for a lifetime. That would be great revenge.

Xtessa asked~where were you in your life seven years ago?

Seven years ago I was living alone with Anna. James was in jail (big surprise there) and I was working as a stripper. I was making pretty good money at the time and I did not have much time for a relationship with anyone. I was to busy making money and taking care of Anna. My whole life at that time was work and Anna. I did not have a car so I took a bus everywhere I went. I was happy when James was locked up and I had a great group if friends that I worked with that knew more about me than even my family would know. I wish I had friendships like that now...I guess that was a different life.....a long time ago. It did get me to where I am now and it shaped me into the person I am today.

Twist of Kate asked~Well it says you live with your boyfriend of 5 years...when are ya gonna get married, if ever?

I am getting married on November 1st this year. We are going to have a very small wedding with no family around. When I first met Greg I said that we could get married when I am 95 because a palm reader said I would live to be 97 and I never want to get divorced so I though that was a good plan......Greg talked me out of that way of thinking.

Pure Mood asked~Where is the most public place you've had sex?

I guess I will have to say that it was in a large parking lot in the city. I was in this guys car and we did our thing. We kept seeing the cleaners and parking lot attendants walk by....they were watching us on the video camera.....oops! I guess that was the biggest audience I have ever had:) I have had sex in the movie theater and public bathrooms but I thought this story was pretty funny.

Mona asked~what is one nightmare you've had that you could never shake? And one dream you've had that has been the most heavenly?

I do not remember my dream to well but I did have a real strange dream about 2 weeks ago about some co-workers that I do not like and they had a special office at work and it was set up real for a queen and all. They treated everyone else in the office like slaves and they stuck them in a different office the size of a very small closet. (I know it was a very strange dream).

A good dream....I can not remember. I do talk in my sleep a lot....I fight with people in my dream quite often. I am not sure how my boyfriend deals with my sleep habits:)

Janie q asked~what are your plans for the 4th of july?

I have to work the first part of the day and after work I will take Anna to see fireworks but I am not sure where we will go to see them. I might go on the military base or into the city (I had a bad experience in the city on July 4th when I was a little girl and have not wanted to go back for the 4th since that time.) I will explain that story later ont his week when the 4th gets closer.

Doris asked~Do you now feel obliged to answer all these questions?

Yes I do! But I asked so I will do my best.

Star asked~What kind of profession or vocation do you think Anna will chose when she grows up?

I do not care what profession Anna chooses but I do want her to be independent and to be happy. I do not want her to depend on any one for anything (that includes mom...but I am always here for her.) I have not made the best decisions in life but I know how to take care of me and Anna if I need to. I want Anna to have that. I want Anna to to be happy with whatever she does and I will help her in every way that I can to make sure she can do that.


Blogger Crazy Single Mom said...

very informative I learned a lot from this about you :-)
here via Michele today :-)

6:45 AM  
Blogger -xtessa- said...

girl... you certainly led an interesting life!;) but it really shows how far you've come! you go, girl! anna is certainly in good hands...

7:29 AM  
Blogger Marie said...

I love the honesty in your answers. I feel like I just got a glimpse of your strong character as well as inner strength. Thank you for sharing. :)

11:40 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Here via Michele's Meet N Greet. Great place yo have here.

3:53 PM  
Blogger Carmi said...

I'll be among the first to buy a book about your life when it is published. What a fascinating bunch of experiences you have shared with us. Thanks!

Here again via Michele's M&G.

4:05 PM  
Blogger TheBisch said...

Fascinating. Doing it in front of a camera and not realizing it until afterwards. That's awesome. Wonder if there's a video of you floating around on the Internet? ;)

Here via Michele's today...

5:36 PM  
Blogger quietlyshouting said...

I'm also here from Michele's today. It's a gorgeous blog you have and some really interesting Q&A's.

I know what you mean about the heels - I can't live without them!

6:28 PM  
Blogger puremood said...

Great answers and thanks for answering mine :)

You ask if i mind you blog roll me today in a comment on my site, no I don't mind at all. Please do, I blogrolled you last weekish :)

Hope your spirits are higher today :)

10:46 PM  

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