Monday, June 20, 2005

who does he think he is?

I got a message on my machine today from James. He said that I am ignorant because I did not have Anna call him yesterday for fathers day. He also reinformed me that Greg is not Anna's father because he thinks that I may have forgotten that piece of information. How could I forget about that? I can not believe that he would have the nerve to say that. For those readers out there that do not know.....James is Anna's father and he is married to my sister that is why all of the sudden he acts like he cares about Anna. James has been locked up for most of Anna's life he may get out for a month or two but goes right back in for something stupid.

I met Greg when Anna was 2 and he is all she knows as far as a dad figure goes. Anna knows who James is and she calls him James(he is nothing to her). In the last 6 years Greg has taken on Anna as one of his own children. He helps me take care of Anna in every way that a father should. Anna will go to Greg before she will go to anyone about anything. They have a true relationship...one that I wish I had with my father but never did. James only comes around when it will benefit him. He normally just wants to show off what a good "daddy" he can be.

I have not had a chance to talk to James or my sister since that message and I am so angry that he would try to down play everything that Greg has done for me and Anna that I would spit on James if he was in front of me.

So after all these years and even now Greg is the only man that takes care of Anna. James will not pay his child support he is currently over $8,000.00 behind in his order and he could care less......I know it is not all about money. If James was a real father he would be around for Anna...he would have called on her last day of school to see how things went. He would call to make sure she is ok....he would act like a father....he has no clue!

I want the world to know that Greg is the best DAD that Anna could ever have.

P.S.~ James....YOU SUCK! It is your loss you F*$@ING LOSER!

13 Comments:

Blogger -xtessa- said...

Greg sounds like a great man... sorry to hear that James is bothering you.

here's a *hug* to help you feel better.

9:30 PM  
Blogger Marie said...

I'm sorry that you had to deal with that crap from James. Greg sounds like a truly good man and a wonderful father to Anna. She's a lucky girl to have both of you.

9:31 PM  
Blogger Charlie Mc said...

Men who don't take responsibility for their children suck!!!!!!!!!

7:10 AM  
Blogger JohnH985 said...

Dont' worry, Anna knows who cares for her between Greg and James. My brother went through the same situation, and Sean knows that my brother is not his Dad, but he accepts him more as a dad than his real Dad who was never there for him. He gets my brother a fathers day card, he just graduated from high school a year ago and made sure my brother was there to see...they live out of state, like way out of state...but that's another story. It's great that Anna has Greg in her life and believe me she may know that he is not her "real" Dad, but in every word but biological he is her Real Dad. It takes more than just sperm to make a father.

1:35 PM  
Blogger MommaK said...

James is an ass. Tell him you're holding out for your 8K before he gets his Ftaher's Day card. You'll just hang on to them until then...

Happy Belated Fathers Day Greg:-)

2:56 PM  
Blogger Rebky said...

Three Cheers to Greg! Happy Belated Fathers Day to him! :-)

3:00 PM  
Blogger mrsmogul said...

I like the YOU SUCK line. I would add the throwing the rock through the window.

5:03 PM  
Blogger Tammy said...

James is an idiot....and I am soooo glad that you have Greg to take care of you and Anna!

I'm behind on my blogreading...too caught up in designing all of a sudden....but wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you!

5:33 PM  
Blogger annie said...

Greg is her REAL Father. A real man takes care of his kids. He sounds like a good guy!

7:03 PM  
Blogger PresentStorm said...

I think it's awesome that Greg is her daddy ...It is great she has a wonderful male role model ..I am sorry James is being an ass ..that sucks :( I also agree with mommak I would tell him once he has paid his 8,000 in child support you may think about a father's day card and maybe even a call ..lol What a jerk

10:52 PM  
Anonymous Claire said...

My 'real' father is very similar to James and I was lucky enough to have a step-father like Greg who would do anything for us and took us on as his without hesitation...he's the father giving my sister away at her wedding while our 'real' one doesn't even know she's getting married. Sounds like Anna is being given the support and love that she needs to be strong enough to tell James where to go when she reaches the right age...I was a Daddy's girl but even I did it!

1:09 PM  
Blogger Heather said...

That;s a really tough situation. I hope it smooths itself out for Anna's sake. hang in there.

11:25 PM  
Blogger Melinda said...

The lengths and depths of that man's stupidity never cease to amaze me!

3:03 PM  

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