Saturday, March 26, 2005

life is not good for "them"

I called my mother this morning and she informed me that my loving sister called my dad and stepmom to see if they want her to bring Anna over so they can see her for a little while.

Mom said that Jessica was crying when she called my stepmom to see if she could "drop Anna off for a little while." I think it is sooo funny. Jessica has ruined all of her ties with her family. She is not welcome in anyone's home. She is a thief and a liar. Since Jessica was little she could not be trusted. There are so many stories about her. She has stolen money, clothes, anything that is not tied down and even some things that are nailed down.

Jessica is not allowed around mom because she sent my stepdad to jail for child abuse. She is not allowed in my dad's house because she sent him to jail also for child abuse. She is not allowed in my house because she is married to my daughters father and she is a thief and a liar.

I guess things are not going well with Anna there but they will not call me to get her. There is no way that they will admit that they cannot handle her.

Mom told me that when she called my step-mom she told her that she knows that I keep Anna away from them so if they want to see her they can "keep" her for a couple hours. My step-mom replied by saying "If I want to see Anna I can do it myself" and she slammed the phone down on Jessica. HAHAHA!

The worst part about it all is that no one in my family really cares about Anna. My dad called on Christmas day and got Anna for the night because I was sick with the flu. They never called her on her birthday (January 16) and have not asked to see her since Christmas. I will not beg any one in my family to see her and oddly enough Anna could care less if she sees any of them. She is not dumb she knows what is going on.

Anyways, I think it is really funny that they are trying to get rid of her for the day. Oh, and believe me when I say that we will argue about this on Monday night when I pick her up at his house. I should have a good story to tell about that.

I have to go now. My girlfriend is picking me up so we can go to a Mary Kay party and her friends house. She was amazed that I would want to go because I sell Avon and she thought I would not want anything to do with "Mary Kay". It's all good though. I love home parties. I hope the host knows how to cook. The food is the best part about the parties. Now I have to con my boyfriend out of some money in case I buy something..........

10 Comments:

Blogger TrueJerseyGirl said...

Its a shame no one in your family seems to care about Anna....but I hope you give her 100 times the love so that she knows how special she is!

2:51 PM  
Blogger Martine said...

Don't you just want to pick Anna up, knowing now that she is not even wanted there?

4:00 PM  
Blogger Dawn said...

jerseygirl~
Anna is loved here at my home and that is all she really needs and more tha what some kids get

martine~
I wish it was that easy. I don't have any say in it this is court ordered. I am trying though. In about one year it should be time for me to ask him to give up his rights to Anna. He is over 7,000 behind in child support and keeps falling farther behind. I will get the final say in this!

8:45 PM  
Anonymous Old Horsetail Snake said...

What a mess. Good you can keep smiling. I'm looking forward to the day you win.

9:56 PM  
Blogger Rebky said...

You should consider pulling away from these people entirely. They seem to suck a positive energy from you and offer negative energy in it's place. They don't deserve Anna anyway. It will be nice when you can get him to give up rights.

In the meantime Anna doesn't need that kind of influence in her young impressionable life, as you said, you are enough love for Anna and you must protect her with that love.

4:03 AM  
Blogger Claire said...

Keep fighting for her, Anna will appreciate it when she's older...I sure appreciated all the fighting my Mum did for me. Hope the Mary Kay party was fun - I'm the same love home parties!

7:41 AM  
Anonymous franchini said...

Hi, I came via Michele's. Family relationships can be so tense sometimes. I do feel for you and your little girl. Enjoy your night out.

9:42 AM  
Blogger Tammy said...

Anna knows that you love her, and that's the most important thing.

Hope your Easter is going well.

11:12 AM  
Blogger mrsmogul said...

So no one cares about Anna? That's horrible. Make sure Jessica doesn;t steal any of your AVON stuff!

11:23 AM  
Blogger Dawn said...

horsetale snake~
I have been waiting a long time to win! It will be great when that day comes

rebky~
I have tried to get away but the harder I try to get away the more they push back into our lives. That drama will be explained in a leter post. To complicated to explain now....

claire~
I did have fun at the party and I will keep buying from this rep. She was great!

franchino~
Thanks for stopping by.

tammy~
Anna is a very strong little girl this is a piece of cake compared to some of the other things she has been put through.

My easter is going ok....it is just me and Gred because Anna is with "them" this weekend.

mrs mogul~
I keep all my stuff away from her now....I learned my lesson to many times with her. I odn't think I have anything in my "bag of tricks" that would help her anyways!

11:41 AM  

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